(so far) i find two ways on how most parents educate their children.....

1. they give reward....*kalo bisa ini, tar mama beliin ini, mama ajak ke sana..bla bla bla*
2. or punishment, yelling, or whatever they call it....darn their high tone voices..... (huh!!!!)
*ngapain punya anak kalo cuma buat dimarah"in????*

and i'm still struggling (aka wishing) to find the way in between...
cause i feel these two are not the right ones..

*parents should be aware of what they do...because (as Albert Bandura mentioned)...
children imitate almost everything they see, no matter it's good or bad*