(so far) i find two ways on how most parents educate their children.....

1. they give reward....*kalo bisa ini, tar mama beliin ini, mama ajak ke sana..bla bla bla*
2. or punishment, yelling, or whatever they call it....darn their high tone voices..... (huh!!!!)
*ngapain punya anak kalo cuma buat dimarah"in????*

and i'm still struggling (aka wishing) to find the way in between...
cause i feel these two are not the right ones..

*parents should be aware of what they do...because (as Albert Bandura mentioned)...
children imitate almost everything they see, no matter it's good or bad*

ada cerita....

sebuah hati yang mencoba untuk berserah...
sebuah hati yang mencoba untuk terus tertawa...
sebuah hati yang ingin bercerita semua tentang mereka...

ternyata tak kuat.....

ada cerita...tentang mereka...di masa indah mereka.....

itu dulu...tapi tidak sekarang....

*buat krucil, you're not alone..hang in there, kay*

kembaliku..

pulang tentu saja membawa beberapa perubahan.
yg paling nyata adalah perubahan pola hidup serta pola makan...

ngefek kemana" niy jadinya...

tapi kembali ke rumah juga membawa perubahan berarti dalam pola pikir, dan saya bersyukur untuk itu. at least untuk saat ini............

being unwell...

what will you feel if you know someone who's always strong, stay in control, tough, and content,
suddenly laying in bed, looks miserable, weak and everything that is so unhim? never seen him being this weak...this down....

and to my surprise...his appetite has flown away, which means he's really ill...

it's like you wanna have at least half of his suffer....
so that you'll be able to just simply seize the day with while listening to his long 'lecture' again....

*cepet sembuh ya, bulat....sing sabar....tar kita makan yg enak" (tapi sehat) lagi yach!!!
si nyamuk emang nakal deh...*